When I reflect on the journey that led to my marriage, it's a story of adventure, resilience, and an unexpected realization. The moment of clarity came not at the altar, but on a whisky-soaked afternoon in Japan, after an epic cycling tour.
The Opposites Attract
I met my partner, Dat, in San Francisco, a city known for its vibrant energy. He was a specialized nurse, a calming presence in a room, while I was building my own Mongolian vodka business. Our relationship moved quickly, and we soon found ourselves navigating life's challenges together.
A Leap of Faith
The election of Trump in 2016 changed the landscape for my business, so we decided to leave the US. We chose Australia, a country I knew, but a new adventure for Dat, who was born in Vietnam. It was a bold move, a leap into the unknown, and a testament to our growing bond.
The Broadwater Years
In Australia, we took over the Broadwater resort in Busselton. The pandemic hit, and we worked and lived together 24/7. It was a test of our relationship, but one we passed with flying colors. I often think about how those intense years prepared us for the challenges ahead.
The Cycling Challenge
After years of hard work, we decided to take a break and embarked on a cycling tour from Venice to Athens. Dat, who couldn't ride a bike at the start, quickly learned and showed incredible determination. The ride was grueling, but we finished, a testament to Dat's resilience and our ability to support each other.
The Whisky Bar Moment
In a small whisky bar in Sapporo, over a Kanosuke single malt, we realized something profound. After riding thousands of kilometers together, we had faced and overcome challenges that marriage might not present. It was a simple realization, but a powerful one. We knew we were in this together, through thick and thin.
A Quiet Decision
There was no grand proposal, just a mutual understanding. We got married in 2024, a beautiful ceremony at the Broadwater, with our loved ones present. Dat's decision to take my surname, to share a name with my son, was a beautiful gesture that brought tears to my eyes.
The Power of Teamwork
Being married has deepened our connection. We feel more grounded and united. We've stepped away from the resort, but cycling remains a constant in our lives, taking us to new places and adventures. Through it all, we've supported each other, a testament to the strength of our bond.
What many people don't realize is that marriage is not just about the wedding day, but about the journey and the challenges you face together. It's about finding your person, your partner in crime, and knowing that together, you can take on the world.
